10 DAYS 1:1 WITH HEATHER

For 10 days, you don’t have to carry fertility on your own.

If fertility has become the thing you’re constantly thinking about, researching, questioning and trying to get right, I want you to hand some of that over to me.

For 10 days, we’ll work together privately.

We’ll start with a 60-minute 1:1 consultation where I get to know you, what’s happened so far and what’s taking up the most space in your head right now.

Then you’ll have five working days of direct WhatsApp access to me while I personally coach you through my Stop The Spiral framework.

You can bring me the thought you can’t get out of your head.

The thing that’s happened that morning.

The decision you’re going round in circles over.

The fear you know you’re spiralling into but can’t seem to get yourself out of.

And instead of trying to work through it by yourself, you can bring it to me.

Then we’ll finish with a 40-minute private 1:1 where we bring everything together and look at where you are now and what comes next.

Two private sessions. Five working days of direct access to me. Ten days where someone else is in this with you.

[WORK WITH ME FOR 10 DAYS →]10 days of 1:1 fertility coaching to help you step out of the overthinking and feel clearer about what comes next.

For Women Who Are Exhausted From Carrying Fertility Alone

YOU NEVER IMAGINED TRYING FOR A BABY WOULD TAKE UP THIS MUCH SPACE IN YOUR LIFE.

You wake up thinking about it. You go to sleep thinking about it.

You research something because you want an answer, then end up with three more things to worry about.

You’re trying to make the right decisions, do the right things and make sure you’re not missing something.

And even when you know you’re overthinking…

when becoming a mum matters this much, how are you supposed to just stop thinking about it?

You don’t need to care less.

You need somewhere for everything you’re carrying to go.

THAT’S WHAT THESE 10 DAYS ARE FOR.

For 10 days, you don’t have to be the only person trying to make sense of what’s going on in your head.

You can bring it to me.

The thought you can’t get out of your head. The decision you’re going round in circles over. The thing that’s happened that morning and sent you straight back into fertility mode.

And we’ll work through it together.

And I want to be really clear about something.

I’m not giving you another fertility to-do list.

There isn’t loads to keep up with, hours of content to get through or another set of things you need to do perfectly.

The whole point of these 10 days is to take some of the load off you, not give you more to carry.

I’ve deliberately kept the framework short and practical. You work through one small part at a time, then bring what’s coming up to me.

You don’t need to work harder at fertility for the next 10 days. You get to stop working so hard at holding all of it by yourself.

10 DAYS 1:1 WITH ME IS FOR YOU IF

  • Fertility is taking up far more of your headspace than you want it to.

  • You keep researching because you’re frightened there might be something you’ve missed.

  • You’re exhausted from questioning whether you’re doing enough or doing the right things.

  • Your life feels like it’s waiting for you to get pregnant.

  • You can go from feeling hopeful to convinced it’s never going to happen in the space of a day.

  • You’re tired of being the person who has to keep on top of everything.

  • You don’t want to be told to “just relax”. You want someone who actually understands why you can’t simply switch this off.

  • You’d really like someone else in your corner for a while.

WHAT WOMEN SAY ABOUT WORKING WITH ME

“I regained the mental space to think about other areas of my life instead of constantly spiralling online.”

“I felt consumed by the pain and pressure of TTC, but she pulled me out of that dark space”

“Heather showed me genuine empathy, deep knowledge, and a listening ear. For the first time, I felt seen and heard. ”.

Sometimes the biggest relief is knowing you don’t have to work everything out by yourself anymore.

WHAT COULD FEEL DIFFERENT AFTER 10 DAYS TOGETHER?



You understand why your mind keeps going back to fertility instead of wondering why you can’t just switch it off.

You recognise when you’re starting to spiral before you’ve lost another evening researching.

You stop questioning every little thing you do in case it’s somehow affecting your chances.

You have practical ways to get yourself through the moments when fertility suddenly feels like too much.

You start making room for your life now without feeling as though that means you’ve stopped wanting your baby.

You feel clearer about the questions that genuinely need your attention.

And when something comes up during our 10 days together…

you don’t have to sit with it on your own. You can ask me.

WHAT WE’LL USE DURING OUR 10 DAYS



I don’t want this to become another thing you have to keep up with.

Stop The Spiral gives our time together some structure, but I’ve deliberately made each part short and manageable.

You’ll work through one small part at a time, then bring whatever it brings up for you to me.

There are no hours of training to get through and no expectation that you do any of this perfectly.

The framework gives us somewhere to start. The real value comes from being able to bring what you’re noticing to me.

Part 1

CALMING THE INTERNAL ALARM

Understand what happens when fertility puts your nervous system on high alert and what can help when everything suddenly feels too much.


Part 2

UNDERSTANDING THE FERTILITY MIND

Understand why your mind keeps returning to fertility and why knowing you’re overthinking doesn’t necessarily make it stop.


Part 3

CHANGING THE THOUGHTS YOU KEEP COMING BACK TO

Start noticing the fears, beliefs and worst-case scenarios that have become automatic.

Part 4

BECOMING THE OBSERVER

Learn to separate what you actually know from the story your mind has started creating around it.


Part 5

Living Beyond Limbo

Make room for your life now without feeling as though you’re giving up on the future you desperately want.

You can desperately want to become a mum and want to feel like yourself again.

FOR FIVE WORKING DAYS, YOU’LL HAVE DIRECT ACCESS TO ME

This is where our work becomes personal to you.

While you’re working through Stop The Spiral, you’ll have five working days of private WhatsApp access to me.

You can send me a voice note when something has happened that morning and you can feel yourself spiralling.

When you’ve noticed something about yourself and want to talk it through.

When there’s a thought you keep coming back to.

Or when you understand something we’ve covered but you’re struggling to apply it when you’re actually in the middle of it.

You don’t have to save it up, Google it or try to work through it by yourself.

You can bring it to me.

I’ll respond personally during my working hours with coaching, questions, reflection and support.

Because understanding something when you’re calm is one thing.

Recognising it when you’re standing in the middle of another difficult fertility day can be very different.

For those five working days, I’ll be there to help you do that.

YOU’LL ALSO HAVE THE FERTILITY CALM COLLECTION

A library of short, practical calming practices including tapping, breathwork, guided relaxation and nervous-system support.

These aren’t another set of things you need to find hours to work through.

They’re short practices you can reach for when your mind won’t switch off, you’re waiting for a result, something has triggered you or fertility suddenly feels like too much.

They’re there when you need them, not another thing you have to complete.

WE START AND FINISH TOGETHER



YOUR 60-MINUTE OPENING PRIVATE 1:1

Before you work through anything, I want to understand you.

We’ll talk through your fertility journey, what’s happened so far, what’s taking up the most headspace and where you feel stuck.

We’ll also look at what you most need from our 10 days together so our time has a clear focus from the beginning.

That means when you start messaging me during our time together, I already know the story behind what you’re bringing me.

YOUR 40-MINUTE CLOSING PRIVATE 1:1

At the end of our 10 days, we’ll come back together.

We’ll look at what’s changed, what still feels difficult and what you want to take forward.

Then we’ll step back and look at the fertility questions that have surfaced during our time together, including relevant questions around tests, investigations or treatment, and what may be worth considering next.

Then we’ll step back and look at any fertility questions that have surfaced during our time together, including questions around tests, investigations or treatment, and what might be useful for you to think about next.

We’ll talk through what’s come up, what I think is worth your attention and what your best next steps might be, so you leave feeling clearer about where you go from here.

And if there’s something I think deserves a closer look, I’ll tell you.

We start with me understanding where you are.

We finish with you clearer about where you go from here.

YOU WON’T BE DOING THIS ALONE

For 10 days, we’re working together.

  • 60-minute opening private 1:1.

    We start together so I understand you, your fertility story and what you need from our time together.

  • 5 working days of direct WhatsApp access to me.

    Bring me what’s actually coming up while you work through Stop The Spiral, and I’ll personally coach and support you through it.

  • 40-minute closing private 1:1

    We bring everything together and look at what has shifted, what still needs your attention and what comes next.

  • My complete Stop The Spiral framework

    Short, manageable sessions that give our 10 days together structure without becoming another enormous thing to complete.

  • The Fertility Calm Collection

    Practical support for the moments fertility suddenly feels like too much.

  • Lifetime access

    Keep the Stop The Spiral framework and Fertility Calm Collection to come back to after our 10 days together.

WHAT IT CAN FEEL LIKE TO HAVE SOMEONE IN YOUR CORNER



IMAGINE IF…

You woke up and fertility wasn’t automatically the first thing you thought about.

You noticed yourself reaching for your phone to Google something and could actually leave it there.

You could make a decision without spending the next three days wondering whether you’d made the wrong one.

You could go out for dinner, book the holiday or have a genuinely good day without that little voice asking whether you should be doing something for your fertility instead.

A pregnancy announcement could still hurt without taking the rest of your day with it.

You could want a baby just as much as you do now…

and still feel like there was room for you in your own life.

And when you did have a difficult fertility day, you knew what to do with it instead of disappearing straight back down the spiral.

That’s what we’re working towards during our 10 days together.

READY TO HAVE SOMEONE ELSE IN YOUR CORNER?

If fertility has become a full-time job in your head…

If you’re tired of being the person who has to research, analyse and work everything out…

And if what you really want is someone who understands fertility and understands what living through it is doing to you…

Come and work with me for 10 days.

 

  • 60-minute opening private 1:1

    So I understand your fertility story, where you are now and what you need from our time together.

  • 5 working days of direct WhatsApp access to me

    Personal coaching and support while you’re actually living the things we’re working through.

  • 40-minute closing private 1:1

    To bring everything together and get clearer about where you go from here.

  • The complete Stop The Spiral framework

    Five short, focused parts that give our time together structure without adding more overwhelm.

  • Simple prompts and practical support

    Nothing complicated or time-consuming. Just enough to help you notice what’s happening and give us something useful to work with together.

  • The Fertility Calm Collection

    Short practices you can dip into when fertility feels particularly overwhelming. They’re there when you need them, not another thing you have to complete.

  • Lifetime access

    Keep the Stop The Spiral framework and Fertility Calm Collection after our 10 days together.

Investment:

£555

For the next 10 days, you don’t have to figure all of this out alone.

For the next 10 days, you don’t have to figure all of this out alone.



THIS WILL BE A GOOD FIT IF:

  • You know fertility is taking over more of your life than you want it to.

  • You’re willing to look at what’s happening underneath the researching, overthinking and need to stay on top of everything.

  • You want personal support rather than another programme to work through by yourself.

  • You want to make some room for yourself alongside trying to become a mum (or having another baby).

  • You understand these 10 days aren’t fertility treatment and can’t promise a pregnancy outcome.

  • You’re ready to let someone else into what you’ve been carrying by yourself.

WHY I WANT TO WORK WITH YOU THIS WAY

Sometimes you need someone who already knows the story.

Someone you can bring it to.

Someone who understands fertility and understands what living through it can actually feel like.

That’s why I now work through Stop The Spiral with you.

You have the framework.

You have the tools.

And for 10 days, you have me too.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

WHAT IF I ALREADY KNOW A LOT ABOUT MINDSET AND FERTILITY?

That’s completely fine.

A lot of the women I work with already understand themselves very well. You might already know you’re overthinking or recognise some of the patterns you’re caught in.

Knowing that doesn’t necessarily help when you’re standing in the middle of it.

These 10 days aren’t about giving you more information to understand by yourself.

You have me there to help you work with what’s actually happening for you.

IS THIS JUST MINDSET COACHING?

No.

The main focus of our 10 days is helping you with the mental and emotional impact fertility is having on your life.

But I also understand the fertility side of what you’re living through.

That’s why, during our final consultation, we can step back and discuss relevant fertility questions that have surfaced around your tests, investigations or treatment and what may be worth considering next.

This isn’t a full clinical fertility assessment or a replacement for medical care.

HOW MUCH TIME DO I NEED TO SET ASIDE FOR THIS?

Not loads.

I know the last thing you need is another programme taking up even more of your headspace.

The Stop The Spiral sessions are deliberately short, and I’m not expecting you to spend hours journalling, completing exercises or trying to do everything perfectly.

We’ll focus on one small part at a time, and you can bring what’s actually happening in your real life to me as you go.

This should feel like someone helping you carry what’s already there, not giving you more to carry.

WHAT DOES THE WHATSAPP ACCESS INCLUDE?

You’ll have five working days of private WhatsApp access to me while you work through Stop The Spiral.

You can send me voice notes about what’s coming up, the thoughts you’re getting stuck in, something that’s happened or something from our work that you’re finding difficult to apply.

I’ll respond personally during my working hours with coaching, questions, reflection and support.

If clinical fertility questions arise, we’ll note those and give them proper time during your final consultation.

WHAT HAPPENS IN THE FINAL CONSULTATION?

By this point, I already know you and I’ve spent the previous 10 days hearing what’s been coming up.

We’ll bring together what you’ve noticed, what’s changed and anything you’re still finding difficult.

Then we’ll look at the wider fertility questions that have surfaced and what may be worth considering next.

I want you to leave clearer about yourself and clearer about where you go from here.

DO I HAVE TO COMPLETE STOP THE SPIRAL WITHIN THE 10 DAYS?

The intention is to work through the five short parts while we’re together, so you can bring whatever comes up to me as you go.

There’s no need to rush. Our 10 days give you space to fit it around real life, without it becoming another thing to keep on top of.

After our 10 days finish, you’ll still have lifetime access to Stop The Spiral and the Fertility Calm Collection.

WILL THIS HELP ME GET PREGNANT?

I can’t promise that, and I wouldn’t sell these 10 days to you by suggesting I could.

This work is about helping you feel less consumed by fertility, understand what’s happening underneath the spiral and feel clearer about how you move forward.

Pregnancy is never an outcome I can guarantee.

YOU DON’T HAVE TO KEEP CARRYING FERTILITY ALONE

Maybe you’ve been doing that for months.

Maybe it’s been years.

Maybe you’ve become so used to researching, remembering, questioning and keeping everything moving that you don’t even realise how much you’re holding anymore.

For 10 days, let me hold some of it with you.

10 DAYS 1:1 WITH HEATHER

60-minute opening private 1:1

5 working days of direct WhatsApp access to me

40-minute closing private 1:1

The complete Stop The Spiral framework

The Fertility Calm Collection

Lifetime access to your resources

£555

 

You can still want your baby with everything you have and make room for yourself while you’re waiting.